Am I just one living, breathing red flag when in the presence of women?
October 21st, 2011Question: Am I just one living, breathing red flag when in the presence of women?
Dumb title, I know lol. Anyway…I am in need of an answer to a question I have had for quite some time now, so I am beyond anxious to try this out. I would just really like to know if women believe that this is the description of “an un-datable” or not, and reasons you believe the way you do.
I have never dated. Not because I have never wanted to, but because I have always felt that women have been avoiding me to justifiable ends. I’ve had a few sluts and desperate housewives approach me and solicit me for sex over the years, yet for obvious reasons, inactivity for the next one to come along has become not only an acknowledgably pathetic outlook, but just plain unacceptable. Along with this issue comes the high school bred acne that caused me to break out and make my social problems worse. I believe what happened is that over the years, I developed a defense to being ignored, and with the way I was treated I don’t blame my psyche. Anyway, the point of this section was to highlight that I have moderate acne scars on top of being inexperienced with women.
I should mention now that I am 26 years old and back in college and an aspiring writer (soul calling me out/not much money guaranteed). I am in my second year and finding it far more than difficult to keep things in appearance when there doesn’t seem to be any emotional reward half way down this tunnel.
Back to information. I don’t own a car, though I have my license and have driven before. I live close to the campus and don’t feel as though it’s necessary to drive 3 blocks four times a week. And along with that comes insurance and automobile payments for no real reason as I see it. I do live in a mid-sized city. So busses run until midnight, but there isn’t anything to do anywhere nearby (no grocery stores or bars). The next blemish would be my not having a job. This is something I have done to keep my stress low for studying, which I think is important, but who am I to say?
Well, that’s my current situation. I am really interested to know how many people would find this disgusting, or even a turn off to find out. About my personality (if it is not coming through clear enough through my writing) : After years of being ignored, taking me to the days I became desperate, and to the point where I am sitting here hopeful but having nearly absolutely given up, I have reached an acceptance stage. It’s a strange thing to not be acknowledged for many years, and it really messes with you when you don’t want things to be the way they are. I have become a more complicated and methodical, empirical, and logical thinker, and along the way, a more well rounded mortal than I know I would have been otherwise.
Anyway…I would just like to know what various women think about first when they come across a case like this, or what they have experienced in the past. I’m sorry for the extensive text, but I am looking for a job (because I really do want to write) and trying not to break into slang and poor explanations in the process. (not too badly anyway lol). But If you’ve prefabricated it this far, I’d love to hear your answers…and thank you for taking the time to help out.
Best answer:
Answer by Peter Melchor
this…. is why you date in highschool
you never had experience and you never worked on your social skill to help you with this subject, all i can tell you is, nearly each girl your age like the good guys, and they allw ant attention just be yourself and your sure to find what you need….
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Dude, I know the feeling tho I am 2 years younger than you. I haven’t been in a relationship either. But last year have changed me a lot. I don’t have girl yet but theres now few who want me. Thats something, no?
So, year ago I was depressed, no stability in jobs, bla bla bla. What I realised was that, all material crap is irrelevant when it comes to ladies. You don’t need to be mscular (I am really skinny – all my life I have felt bad about it), you certainly do not need money. What you need is …. hmm I’ll give u a list what helped me
1) First is passion. I see, for you its writing. Keep doing it – but my advice, take secondary proffession along with you. My passion is drawing – but im in back in school and learning electronics
2) Set goals. Oh and I don’t wanna see any women in it!
3) You need friends. And not those who put you down. Let them go – right now. U need Those who listen you. With who you can spend time.
4) My favourite – watch a lot comedy and listen music. Don’t watch or listen news that put u down.
And while keeping yourself healthy by doing sport and have done all the plans for future. I promise you something – something magical happens. Just after you have forgotten all your problems, just for few minutes, a cute girl walks by and starts talking to you. You speak with her without realising it. That moment is yours! Sometimes we don’t recognize it sometimes we do.
theres a lot to talk about but i dont go in details.
btw the “look” thing. trust me thats irrelevant. I have made friends who are physically a lot worse shape than our society standards want us to be. And when i saw theirs spouses, noone couldn’t close my jaw. It slide down to floor.
Liked your topic man
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