I am drop dead ugly … this is serious!?
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by Mona Loldwoman (Look for the good) Question: I just drop dead unsightly … this is serious !? MY APPEARANCE: (I can not place a picture of cousin that nobody wants to see this) Overweight, 5′10 “, 38C marks, stretching (est? Magician, chest, shoulders), cellulite, brown color marks ? No, the acne? in the face, acne? and acne marks? on the shoulders and back, buttocks massive hemorrhoids (I do not have sex), the fat unsightly nose, small eyes? years of almond and dark inner thighs, vagina and armpits … (Ew) (look 20 pounds less than my actual weight) I like this guy, but I do not think sooo ugly? l like me as? that I even try. There have been some tensions, some qu? mica happening between us, but I s? I want to stop now. No s? what? do. I think that duty? to stop speaking to? l it is evident that no matter . (No s?). Even Though I am in love with? l do not want rejection. S? like I want to stop men from now and it s? that’s impossible! “I’ve never tried doing anything with a man because I have fear of rejection and anxiety. I do not see anyone in the future and thinking about it makes me mourn. I’m thinking of staying a virgin all my life …. but the funny thing is that I want reallll bad (if I masturbate, just because I can not and will never be the real thing) because I’m ugly. Mostly everyone I state that. My mom? tells me I’ll never find a boy cousin of my acne? and my peso.Esto true: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index; _ylt = As2GRvlVzfMq4nijv8bLRLfty6IX;? _ylv four times a day? a = 3 = 20090112200034AA00dO1 and show = 7 # profile-info-soo iDRcMCBOaay if this is true ( is true), “C” m supposed to live life? “C” mo I can I fix it?? What? I do? I s? what a guy needs to find an? minimum, so it has nothing to do me, but then again they can do better. Greatest answer: Wed Reply by mrs.kyosohma
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UHMM well dont sit on here whining about how you look go out and exercise,buy good face wash!
you just need some confidence. and it sounds like the guy likes you =) don’t reject him just because you’re afraid. if everybody rejected who they liked because they were afraid, no one would be married or in love. you just need to realize that you are beautiful and that you’ll find someone someday.
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ok well clearly you could start with some diet, exercise and acne medication. then once you have the skin and weight under control, you start working on a new wardrobe and some makeup. you slather some cocoa butter on your body and you start realizing that if you act ugly, that’s all people are going to see. that will turn people off to even wanting to get to know you. and your mom is a bitch if she says that to you, so tell her she can get bent. you should be improving because YOU want to feel better.
um honestly if he doesnt like you then go find someone eles because that means a shallow bastard TRUSTME
been there done that :p
First of all. You’re asking for an opinion from strangers so this is what i have to say. I’m not going to pretty up anything. I’m going to be blunt.
everyone goes through a period of feeling ugly. especially when she finds a guy that she likes. i had a crush on a guy and i always felt self-conscious. i let things flow between us and i kissed him at a party. i realized he was really cocky and he probably didn’t find me superhot. but whatever. that’s his loss. as for your relationship with the guy, let things be. If he’s interested in you, let him be interested in you. you don’t have to do anything. there’s no pressure for you to ask him out.
“Fixing yourself” isn’t the right way to look at it. You’re born with what you get. So what can you do? Acne, everyone has that. Ask your mom to go take you to a dermatologist. If she blames your skin for being a reason that prevents you from dating, she should do something about it. Weight. All of these emotions are probably causing you to eat more. So choose healtheir foods. Exercise (start off small, like 15 minutes of cardio and 15 push ups and ten lunges.) gradually add on to that.
You can bring out your beauty by creating your own style. choose clothes that are flattering on you. read fashion blogs. get ideas. there are ton of inspirations out there.
as for “beauty”, almost everyone has superficial tendencies. unless your snow white (wait, she got a super hot prince too). That’s inevitable and it’s just the society we live in. You’re not aiming to marry a supermodel! You’ll find someone. just give it time. it’s wrong to just give up.
i hope my words have inspired you somewhat. i personally believe no one is physically ugly. it’s up to the person to do something about it. you’ve got to rock your looks and emphasize your personal beauty.
Honey, you are beautiful! And so is everyone else in the world! I’m guessing you’re a teenager, and I know that those are some of the ugliest years people have (I’m not saying you’re ugly, though). I know you’ll bloom like a flower in a few years.
I know you want to try to be prettier so I’ll try to give you a few tips:
-You said you’re overweight and the most important thing about losing weight is being determined. Go to the gym, work out, run, or any other type of exercise. And don’t eat too much junk food.
- For acne, you can go to a skin doctor and get some advice on what type of medication or acne treatment to use.
- You can always try a new hairstyle once in a while
- Use makeup to make your eyes look bigger. Eyeshadow, eyeliner, and mascara will work well for that.
Now about this guy you were talking about. If you think that there is some chemistry going on, then it’s possible that he likes you! People don’t only look at the outside. Your personality is a major part of you. It’s important to be confident and fun! People don’t want to be around sad people, so be happy!
I really hope I’m helping you, I really want to.
Just know that you are beautiful
Listen to this song, it’s really uplifting! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzyV1hm0c18
Good luck honey
Confidence is the key. I know a lot of people who weren’t very good looking – AT ALL – but they still were able to have fun and get a guy who cared for them. (I’m not saying that I’m all that good looking, but anyway)
but you can:
- Get acne cleansers (Clean & Clear works best), use a toner, and a light oil-free moisturizer
- A light cover-up, touch of lipgloss and some mascara/eyeline will brighten up your face =)
- Join a gym, sport or just go for half hour brisk walks daily or at least every other day
- Long bike rides tone legs (I know from experience)
- Help carry groceries, do chores around the house (not only to make your mom proud but to tone and strength your muscles)
- Dress nice and fashionable – it can boost your confidence by A LOT
- Black, dark coloured, and vertical strip clothing usually makes you look skinner
- Avoid plaid, horizontal stripes, white and light coloured clothing
- Be happy that you’re alive and well, many people have nothing and are dying of diseases/starvation, especially in third world countries
- Be proud of who you are
Low self esteem is a killer.
Let me just say that I have seen much worse than you describe that have a mate………be it male or female. SO you can’t be as bad as you claim.
If you feel a sexual tension between you na nd this man………go for it. If he rejects you……welcome to the club. We have ALL been rejected at one time or another.
There are some things you can do. First would be to stop listening to the haters; no matter WHO they are. The next thing you should do is set some immediate, short term and long range goals. Start by working on the acne. Start a diet, begin a physical fitness program. A positive outlook and CONFIDENCE go a very long way……….
OK all i girl like u need is more confidence, obviously u have a very low self esteem, so u need to think higher of yourself and be happy with your body. try excersizing or go to a doctor to get osme cream to tone down your acne. but everyone has flaws, just some people know how to cover them up better. dont give up and for shur keep talking to that guy because he sounds like he likes u but is a little hesitant to ask u out. be straightforward and tell him how u feel about him. hope this helps and good luck!
Sorry but your mom is a b*tch if I was you I would tell her “guess who made me this way and if you think I’m ugly then you should look in the mirror because with all those wrinkles on your face you are not too hot.”
Okay, sorry about that, but anyway yes good looking people are paid more attention to and get more benefits but being unattractive is not the end of the world. You can be ugly and still have the most fun of your life. Just party and talk to a whole bunch of people just for fun. Go out every week and only focus on living life to the fullest. I know this girl who lots of guys consider unattractive but she is very popular with girls because she is just so funny and will talk to anybody. She is invited to all of the parties because she is so fun to be around and she enjoys life almost more than anyone I know. She does not care what people say and is not afraid to take a picture of herself in a bikini and post it on myspace as her default. She has confident and is having a good time and is not depressed about anything. You need to be that way and focus on other things that do not involve your looks.
Im really sorry you feel so bad about yourself hun. But this is life. And if you dont like your looks, you need to find something else to live for. Work as hard as you can at school, try as hard as you can to get into a great college, and hopefully you will get a good and succesful job. As for men, there are probably a lot of guys out there that think that no girl will ever like them. You need to find them. Also, to keep you from being so lonely, I suggest getting a pet. They can be the happiest thing in your life. I suggest a cute, upbeat puppy, that you will always love and who will never judge you.
good luck and remember that you are special!
xoxo
juju
what low confidence
is you think that about yourself then everyone else around you will too
I think you sound beautiful.
omgg, pleaseee.
try to find positives in your life dear!
I already see lots of people telling you the thing bt I guesss it won’t hurt if I tell you too
the rest of the stuff people told you up there is true I guess
first you’re too hard on yourself
second weight problem is possible to solve it’s ot that hard
and acne has cures
I hope I helped
regards